What is the most difficult thing for a parent?
To say a “NO” to their child, especially when they make a sad face because you deny them from purchasing a new toy.
As Kamlesh Pandey, a chartered accountant confesses, “I always took my daughter to buy her toys and I realised that my urge to splurge went beyond control as she tricked me into making impulsive gift purchases for her.”
One fine day, Kamlesh decided to take things in his hands and introduced his 4-year-old daughter to the “tried and tested technique”– a piggy bank. “My wife and I made regular contributions to the piggy bank,” he added.
His daughter was very excited about accumulating money in her piggy bank. Recently she asked Kamlesh to buy some pencils and he used her piggy bank money to buy it. His daughter’s face shrunk when the money in her kitty reduced. So she naturally started reducing her ad hoc demands for gifts since it ultimately ate into her piggy bank money.
It’s not that Kamlesh can’t afford to pamper his daughter with surprise gifts. His concern was that his daughter would never learn the value of money, which will impact her future financial health.
Finance and kids don’t exactly go together. But as a parent the onus lies on you to teach mechanics of money-the fun way to your kids. Here’s how you can make a start:
1) Play Money
Buy a board game or there are several online games, which teach the art of money management. You can interact with children your children over a game of Monopoly, which mainly deals with rent payments, buying and selling of property. There are also sever online money games such as Financial Football-a financial quiz game, Countdown to Retirement and Ed's Bank-Managing your pocket money. They simplify the mechanics of money and impart financial wisdom to children in a lighter way.
2) Make them save for their gifts
If your kid asks for a bicycle make the kid save some pocket money every month and at least pay 5% of the purchase. What counts is the fact that you gave a goal to your kid and made him/her save for it. Then you can make your kid maintain an excel chart and show them how their savings grew over months to purchase that cycle.
3) Prioritising expenses
As mentioned in the above example, if the kid is saving to partly purchase his/her bicycle, it will inculcate a financial discipline in the kid and make him/her prioritise expenses. If the kid gets tempted and buys a game or a movie CD, he/she has to just wait longer till they save the necessary cash.
4) Financial rewards for maintaining discipline
If you set a saving target for your kid and she reaches that target at the defined time then you can reward your child with a one-time cash bonus or a favourite gift. This will incentivise the kid to save even more.
Habits learnt in childhood are seldom forgotten. If your kid masters these games and techniques in childhood, it’s unlikely that they will live beyond their means in their adulthood.
So what are you going to teach your child today?

